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Not all adventure occurs when you are young. Retirement also can be an adventure — a little scary perhaps but wonderful, both anxiety-provoking and exciting. I have begun the adventure of making my “gay golden years” glitter. There is not much support out there for gays in their senior years (mature years? prime time? Oh, please! Who are we kidding? Old! I can deal with it, so would everyone please stop trying to come up with a non-offensive word for me! The word “senior” works just fine. Just like a senior in high school, I am a senior in LIFE school.) I am still here! I am retiring! I am celebrating! Every Friday...I’m gonna send Annie a column to share with readers. Enjoy. Please feel free to interact.

Lair Davis
October 8, 2004

No news is …

... just that. No news. Other than the fact that I have caught a cold, my first one in many, many years. It comes from my poor old (and it is feeling quite “old”) body having to adjust to new everything: weather, food, water, the whole thing!

It doesn’t help that I have been enjoying the exploration of my new home by taking long walks in the countryside every morning. When I leave my home, it is cool, with a crispness in the air (yes, even here in tropical Costa Rica!). Then, before long I have walked up a sweat, and the sun begins beating down on my poor head (which I have forgotten to cover with a hat on more occasions than I enjoy admitting). Then it begins to rain. All in a matter of a couple of hours or so.

So I return home, sweaty and rained upon. (There is a great phrase in Spanish: “¡Qué aguacero! ¡Estoy hecho una sopa!” = “What a downpour! I am made a soup!”)

Any wonder I have a cold?

This, too, shall pass.

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I think the most delightful part of living in a culture in which I was not born is the fact that it constantly makes me think, re-evaluate priorities and opinions, reconsider things that I thought I knew and to struggle to understand what I haven’t a clue about. I am exhausted at the end of most days just from the astounding amount of THINKING I have done. I have always been a “thinking person,” I suppose, but I really didn’t know what “thinking” was until I expatriated.

When I collapse onto my bed in the evening, there is this smile that simply will not leave my mouth. I am in my 60s, and yet I feel like a six-year-old who is soooo excited about going to school. I cannot wait for tomorrow’s adventures to begin!

How can I possible get “old” with this kind of constant stimulation?



Col 1
(6.25)
Col 2
(7.02)
Col 3
(7.09)
Col 4
(7.16)
Col 5
(7.23)
Col 6
(7.30)
Col 7
(8.06)
Col 8
(8.13)
Col 9
(8.20)
Col 10
(8.27)
Col 11
(9.03)
Col 12
(9.10)
Col 13
(9.17)
Col 14
(9.24)
Col 15
(10.01)

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