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  Lair Davis (Our Man in Costa Rica)


Not all adventure occurs when you are young. Retirement also can be an adventure — a little scary perhaps but wonderful, both anxiety-provoking and exciting. I have begun the adventure of making my “gay golden years” glitter. There is not much support out there for gays in their senior years (mature years? prime time? Oh, please! Who are we kidding? Old! I can deal with it, so would everyone please stop trying to come up with a non-offensive word for me! The word “senior” works just fine. Just like a senior in high school, I am a senior in LIFE school.) I am still here! I am retiring! I am celebrating! Every Friday...I’m gonna send Annie a column to share with readers. Enjoy. Please feel free to interact.

Lair Davis
November 5, 2004

The Routine

I hope I go to bed a little earlier tonight. “Soy dado al trasnochar” — “I am given to staying up late.” It’s an old habit, hard to break.

Fortunately, with my last employer I could arrive at work whenever I wished. What mattered was getting the work done, not how many hours I spent on the premises. Good thing, too. I usually showed up at ten, or even a little later. I had no problem remaining into the evening hours when necessary.

Now that I am retired, my schedule is even more my own. I can go to bed and get up when — and if — I feel like it. Living here in Costa Rica, I feel like rising bright and early with the sun. Late to bed. Early to rise. Thank the Goddess for inventing siestas! Naps are wonderful things.

Most people get up early here. Five is not unusual. The roosters begin to crow about then. By six, everyone is stirring. The horses in the field next door are full of energy. They prance across the green.

Tomorrow is Saturday. It is not easy in retirement to remember which day is what. It doesn’t matter most of the time. Saturdays matter because that is the day the Feria de Agricultor takes over a section of town. Farmers bring in the most wonderful things! Pineapples that make you drool even before you cut into them! I had never eaten a tree-ripened pineapple before coming here. There is nothing better!

Strawberries, blackberries, many different types of oranges and lemons. I have yet to find a variety that does not delight. Repollo chino (boy choy — a personal favorite), carrots the size of your forearm, pepinos — er, uh, excuse me — cucumbers. Broccoli, cauliflower, coriander, bananas, wonderful bananas. I always end up buying much more than I can possibly eat in a week, and so some of it spoils, but then, I only spend a couple of dollars for the entire, huge bag filled to the brim.

Before coming home, I will stop by the Chinese chicken-roasting store. “Pollos a la leña” are chickens roasted on a spit over coffee wood. I buy two a week. Half of one I will eat on Saturday. The rest I will refrigerate and use for arroz con pollo, sandwiches and other meals during the coming days.

I’ll take a taxi back from the feria with my load of goodies. The ride will cost about one dollar. I live on the far outskirts on the other side of town.

I can tell when it is Sunday. Church bells, you know. Far in the distance I can hear them calling the faithful (who are not many in Costa Rica these days — only about 70 percent of the population even claim to be Catholic anymore. The Church is going down quickly here. The daily newspaper reported recently that the Church in Costa Rica is losing on average 453 members every single day.)

I like to know when it is Sunday, because I will walk into town (a 30-minute stroll — great exercise!). Every other Sunday at 11 a.m. I can watch the local boys, Los Griegos of the Second Division, do battle against a team from another city in Costa Rica. Football — REAL football, not the United States variety — rules here, as it does most places in the world. Our team is fighting for the top spot in its group. The winner of the Second Division will get promoted into the First Division at the end of this season. ¡Vaya Griegos!

Afternoons, however, are another matter — even on Saturdays and Sundays. This is the rainy season, which means that it will rain for an hour or so almost every afternoon. It has not missed an afternoon in more than a month. Sometimes it is merely a gentle shower, almost a mist. Other times, it comes an “aguacero” — a real downpour. You can hear the heavy rains approaching from across the hills in the distance, getting louder as they get nearer. When they arrive, the noise can be deafening! They come complete with boot-shaking thunder and spectacular lightning, almost on top of each other! Quite exciting!
 
But then its over, the sun returns, the birds start singing, the butterflies begin to dip and swarm, kids are chattering down the block —  life moves on.

It is time for the siesta.



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