Hillquest

 Lair Davis


Not all adventure occurs when you are young. Retirement also can be an adventure — a little scary perhaps but wonderful, both anxiety-provoking and exciting. I have begun the adventure of making my “gay golden years” glitter. There is not much support out there for gays in their senior years (mature years? prime time? Oh, please! Who are we kidding? Old! I can deal with it, so would everyone please stop trying to come up with a non-offensive word for me! The word “senior” works just fine. Just like a senior in high school, I am a senior in LIFE school.) I am still here! I am retiring! I am celebrating! Every Friday...I’m gonna send Annie a column to share with readers. Enjoy.
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Lair Davis
July 30, 2004

Dogs in Retirement

Costa Rica is overrun by abandoned domestic animals as well as wildlife.  Animal shelters have become a growth industry there. I am planning to volunteer at a animal shelter in Costa Rita when I retire (today, as a matter of fact, right after my coworkers take me out to lunch).

I am also looking forward to finding a pooch at the shelter to take home with me.  I have not had a dog since my hippie days in the 60s (when I didn’t believe in working at “real” jobs, and thus could take my dog along with me everywhere I went). After Jock-Hans died, and once I began to spend the majority of my daylight hours at the workplace, it just didn’t feel right to leave a dog at home alone all day, so I have refrained from having one. Now that I will be home alone all day as well, I want to get another dog. Can’t wait!

When sweet ol’ Jockle-Lockle died, my heart broke. I would tell everyone that I never wanted to own another dog because a pet’s lifespan is so short that a person is just setting her/himself up for heartbreak when you fall in love with one. Now that I am in my 60s, there is a fair chance that any dog I get will outlive ME!

Not such a wonderful thought, but, hey, at least it will be HIS heart that breaks, not mine!


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